Know Your Numbers
A few weeks ago, at 51, I had my first colonoscopy. Better late than never. Everything was normal, and I’m glad I did it. It reminded me of something I…
Issue Archive
I Have Peyronie’s Disease. Should I Be Doing Something?
Finding It and Treating It Are Not the Same Thing A reader recently wrote with a question I hear often. “I’ve developed a plaque and an indentation, but my penis…
Calling a Thing a Thing
There are two ways doctors fail men when the options run out. The first is saying it too early. The second is never saying it at all. Most of us…
Sex is a 13-Letter Word: Communication
The 7 Questions Your Partner Wishes You Would Ask Let’s be honest—talking about intimacy isn’t always easy. Whether you’re opening up to your partner or bringing it up with your…
What They Tell Me After
I Feel Whole A man I implanted several years ago came back for his follow-up and said something I’ve thought about many times since. He was in his sixties. Never…
Not All Platforms Are the Same
Something I think about more than I probably should. The men who need this conversation most usually aren’t searching for it at two in the afternoon on a Tuesday. They’re…